Jeff Benedict, a writer in New York and a Mormon, has one of the best articles on families and sons or daughters with same-gender attraction.  I really encourage people to read it.  It has been a help to me and reinforces conclusions that our family came to.    http://www.jeffbenedict.com/index.php/blog/35-blog/378-maybe-ill-meet-a-girl.  I cannot make choices for my son.  But I can love him and keep him near to us so that he is safe with us and hopefully someday will consider coming back to church.   He has had good and bad experiences with Mormons.  We hope there will be those who choose to love him and see all the good in him.  We see the hand of the Lord in his life and we are so grateful for that.  God remembers all of his children.
Terri